My Imagination..

what did Oprah say about a man?????
*bacaan penting kaum wanitah….

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. Slower is
better. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”. A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is. Don’t stay because you think “it will get better”. You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man’s behavior. Change comes from within. Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are… Even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs. You should not be the one doing all the bending… compromise is two way street. You need time to heal between relationships© there is nothing cute about baggage…

Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you…
A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary, not supplementary. Dating is fun…even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him miss you sometimes… When a man always knows where you are, and you’re always readily available to him – he takes it for granted. Never move into his mother’s house. Never co-sign for a man. Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

jadi cewe-cewe…dicatet yah!

A : iya, disini ujannya gede dech…

B : kalau disini ujannya kecil…

C : disini hujannya banyakkkkkkk bangetttt

D : kalau disana hujannya dikit…

Me : ????????

Ternyata itu adalah anonym untuk hujan deras dan hujan rintik…

Hehehehehe….maaf yah, saya udik, jadi baru tau dechhhhh

baru aja sampai lagi nih di kostan…
kemarin-kemarin dirumah. kangen banget sama si Shan… kemarin jadinya peluk-pelukkan terus dech…
miss u, dede kuh…

udah gitu si sayang jengkol juga sakit…jadi gagal dech yang tadinya mau hairspa dan nonton james bond.
yang ada nemenin si jengkol ke dokter…
gpp dech..yang penting dia kan sembuh yah….

nah sekarang sudah di kost lagi, alone lagi…
heran dech belum juga akrab sama anak-anak kostan..
udah kenalan sih sama beberapa. butuh waktu kali yah. kan aku dasarnya memang malu-maluin pemalu.

hihihihi..ga kerasa besok udah ngantor lagi…kayaknya pengen cepet-cepet bobo!
ya sud kalau begituh…dirikuh blogwalking bobo dulu yah…

mwahhhhhh!!!!

Tiba-tiba ada cerita baru lagi malam ini…

Tentang seseorang yang merasa tidak dimengerti..

Kaget dech waktu dia bilang..

“ver, lo tau ga…gw pengen banget sakit keras sampe gw koma…liat aja nanti..”

Wekssss

Cowo yang satu ini ada apakah?

Dia bilang dia merasa sakit, tapi ga ada yang peduli…

Duh duh teman, ada apakah sih sebenarnya semua ini?

Kenapa tiba-tiba semua orang merasa tertekan dalam hidupnya?

Just call me yah, ceking…

Kalau ternyata lo butuh gw untuk bercerita…

Gw ga mau, klo ternyata lo benar-benar terbaring koma…

hari pertama di kostan…
ngedekem aja di kamar setelah mama, linda, dede dan ais..
terima kasih ya semuanya…

malem ini kayaknya cuma bakal browsing, chatting, download, dll…

ini MP3 dari tadi juga udah nyanyi-nyanyi…

hihihihihihii…akhirnya gw ngekost…sedih juga pisah dari mama dan adik-adikkuh

doakan aku yahhhh!!!!!